Now is the time for a new you. Whether it is a burning ambition or secret aspiration. Have you been undermining your own success? now is the time to get over yourself and live the life you have dreamed of.
Do you find you only take small steps towards your cherished goals before you get distracted or revert to bad habits? It is easy to find something to blame, pressures from the outside world, family commitments, work issues or just lack of money?
Self sabotaging saps the energy we need to create more of the lifestyle we crave for in life. For many of us, the biggest battle is with ourselves. We make conscious goals but subconscious fears and emotions surely hold us back.
Often, the reason we jeopardise happiness is because of deep seated feelings about self worth. How we view ourselves is central to what we create and attract in our lives. If we feel we don't deserve to be happy or successful we will subconsciously find ways to sabotage this. Hence we only create as much love, success and joy in our lives as we feel worthy of.
Bad habits can create more and more to the point you don't realise what you are doing to yourself. Sometimes unresolved emotions can block you. Negative conditions that you have experienced can cause blockage and sabotaging affects.
You can create and change these but self help and self will is the key to get through this.
Don't listen to what people say and don't react to them as many people want an reaction from a action. Pretend you are someone else watching someone's behaviour. This realisation can help you overcoming limited beliefs in life. You are not too old to change ways, behaviours it is about reprogramming yourself of what we have instilled inside of us.
Remember success is not Black and White
Imagine what true success would be like? Feel it, see it and visualise it happening in your life. Like attracts like and it is the law of attraction. Sometimes people often self sabotage due to perfectionism and we are all not perfect hence is why we are on this earth to learn, experience, see and taste. Sometimes we may be in denial about why we are stuck or feel.
Think Beyond Yourself
Most of us don't like to consider ourselves as selfish but it is also true to say not from a judgemental perspective and more of an observational one that self sabotage ruins stuff for others and is therefore selfish behaviour. People so often deny they are behaving selfishly because they don't intend to be selfish but behaviour is behaviour like it or not. Only you can change your behaviour and i use a saying "treat people how i would like to be treated" yes there are people who deserve a lot more than love, kindness and empathy but don't lower yourself to their standards.
All of life is an exploration. Imagine if Cinderella had decided she really couldn't go to the ball even when she has the opportunity, or if he ugly duckling had concluded it wasn't good enough to fly high with the swans? Being open to life means seeing where certain experiences will take you and accepting openly the good as well as the bad. Of course, if something really isn't working or it genuinely isn't for you, that's fine but if it is really a reluctance to explore lie and to experience the good and health, then it is an area that needs some self work.
Source - uncommonhelp.me Articles.
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